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Tuesday, December 26, 2006 What characteristics make a guy the right person to help me become a better person? What gives someone the ability to mold me into a better person? or does that really happen? Is he helping me be a better version of myself or is all of his guidance confined to his sexual preferences? Why is the number one rule "no panties" or "no touching without permission" -- what ever happened to total honesty? unconditional self-respect? I began jotting down my thoughts on this post back in November but 'drafted' it because I didn't feel I had actually thought it through enough to share with others. Since I have been on my pre-holiday break some pretty traumatic things have taken place in my family that has brought these questions back up to my mind and expanded them to include a man in my life~ period. Not just a Dominant Man in my life. I have also realized that I need a relationship that not only has the potential for growth into something deeper, but demands growth in myself. Encouraging growth in one's partner is extremely important for maintaining a relationship over a period of time. If both people grow separately, that can cause things to fall apart. But when the relationship grows with both people, something amazing can come from it. I don't want a partner who thinks I am "good enough" or feels he should settle for me, but I want him to see potential for a deeper relationship. I want to become a better person because of his Dominance, not in spite of it. Labels: thoughts on D/s or M/s  
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