Saturday, January 27, 2007





What does being owned mean to me?

I am including a picture with this post. The picture is not of me (obviously) but rather in response to this question. I agree with the script on the portrait.

Ownership, feeling it or expressing it, is not physical. It is 100% mental. A strip of leather around someone’s neck doesn’t mean she is anyone’s possession, it is how he has molded her mindset that makes her that way. The emotional/mental connection between a man and a woman that causes her to put him before herself, in every way. Not because she has to, not because those are the rules, but because she longs to.

To me, ownership is complete acceptance. He knows my flaws, seen my imperfections, understands my weaknesses-- and wants me because of them... not in spite of them. Because he can use his strengths to make me a better person.

When owned, a girl doesn’t have to worry anymore about pleasing everyone else, what she is ‘supposed’ to do, or what she needs to do. Her only focus is pleasing him, serving him, belonging to him.


*This post was inspired by a question posed in an email from a new Friend.

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