In time a submissive can trust her Dominant to make the right decisions in these regards. They will be the right decisions because with enough time He knows her well enough to make the right decision about her, and His temperament is such it will be the right decision for her as well as Him.

A submissive has the right to trust her Dominant, and to have that trust based on open communication, honesty and gradually accumulated experience. No Dominant can expect a submissive to blindly entrust Him with power over her mind or body. No sane Dominant expects this trust blindly or immediately - not only is it unreasonable, but it cheapens it.

This trust is a precious trust. There is a wonderful warmth of feeling a Dominant has knowing they have received the gift of trust and submission from an intelligent, perceptive and strong human being because they believe you are worth it.

As someone once said to me of their choice of partner,

"I chose him not just because I thought he would always do what he thought was right, but because I knew it would be right."

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