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Tuesday, February 06, 2007 Attention All Wanna-Bes: Elana's Secrets Revealed! The key to finding out why you keep pissing her off. Jerk: take off your panties slut. me: No, so go away. Jerk: then u not real slave. me: So why are you still bothering me? Go away. What bothers me so much about the command "take off your panties"? I think it is because of what that symbolizes to me. my panties offer me a sense of security, they keep me safer than if I didn't wear them. By removing them, I am making myself very vulnerable and I must have faith and trust that the person issuing the request will keep me safe. The horny jerk on the other end of the command usually doesn't care what it means to me and cares even less about establishing some kind of power exchange relationship with me that doesn't revolve around masturbatory rituals. The fact that it means so much to me is my problem, I understand that. But the only way I can submit is for the guy to not only understand this but either accept it or realize that I need this until I can get that emotional security from him. Most just think I am making it into a bigger deal because to a guy, it only means "easy access for sex"... its much more to me. So why can't people just go a little slower and let things progress naturally? Labels: rants  
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