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Wednesday, December 06, 2006 A slave has so many parts to her to keep in balance, the little girl that needs always to be protected, the pet that needs her leash, the slut that needs the deeper release, and so many more. It takes the time and patience, to know when to be there for each part of her. ~Sir JW I really like how he worded this. I think that, as women, we tend to overlook parts of ourselves for the sake of helping others or serving others. There is a fragile balance within each woman. A couple days ago, I heard the difference between the golden rule and the women's golden rule. The golden rule states: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. The women's golden rule is: Do unto yourself as you do unto others. I am definitely guilty of not taking time for myself, not only to relax rest and regroup, but to pamper myself to a certain extent. I kind of like the thought of having a partner whose priority is also making sure that I take care of myself, or that he helps take care of me. I'm not saying I want a guy who is going to wait on me hand and foot, fixing my dinner and drawing my bath each night... but it would be nice for him to tell me every now and then "elana, lets go lay down for a few minutes" because I'm tired, or maybe he does start a hot bath or lights my candles when I need to relax. Some say that a man that does that is overly feminine or its "submissive traits". But I disagree. I don't think that emasculates him at all, I think that actually shows his strength. It also shows that he respects his partner and what she needs to keep herself in balance. Even if the only reason he does it is so that she may better serve him. :) Labels: thoughts on D/s or M/s  
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